"I wasn't handed a roadmap to success, superiority, or abundance in life. Through trial, error, and immense personal growth, I've learned the way—and now, it's my mission to guide others to their own freedom."
For years, my life was marred by self-destruction, sedation, and self-sabotage. I lived unconsciously, selfishly, and disconnected from reality. Each day felt the same: my body ached, my mind was weak, and I only had a superficial relationship with my son.
Becoming a father was my first turning point. I vowed to provide for my family at all costs. Over the next 13 years, my life was turned upside down. I endured the heart-wrenching loss of my brother and uncle, served honorably in the Army, founded a supportive venture for law enforcement and veterans, and faced a painful divorce.
My true transformation began in 2014 when I connected with Luke Kayyem, creator of the Fathers of the Future Movement. The death of my father in 2017 sent me spiraling, but in 2018, I reached out to Luke, desperate for help. On July 4th, 2019, ready to leave my past behind, I showed up at Luke’s house at 4 a.m. That decisive moment marked the start of a profound journey. Over the following 18 months, I rewired my mind, redefined my lifestyle, and reignited my spirituality.
Today, my commitment to growth encompasses the physical, mental, spiritual, and financial realms. I live by a steadfast code:
SHOW UP
DON’T QUIT
DO THE WORK
LEAD WITH LOVE
TRUST THE PROCESS
My purpose is to help others realize their potential, avoid the traps I fell into, and achieve a life of purpose and fulfillment.
Matt Neelley
Creator of Warriors Grace Inc.
"No one showed me how to be a SUPERIOR MAN, achieve massive success or create ABUNDANCE in my life. I had to learn how and now it is my purpose in life to lead men down their own path of freedom."
Just 13 years ago, I was on the path of destruction, sedation, and self-sabotage. I was unaware, unconscious, selfish and disconnected from my own reality. I was clearly not living up to my full potential or maximizing my results. I was getting by and every day was the same, my body hurt, my mind was weak and my relationship with both my wife and my young son was good, not great!
My first shift happened the day I became a father. I made a promise to myself and my family I would not do or become what my Father was to me… a Phantom, a Ghost and a man I never met.
This program is for you if you are a Man, Husband or Father. You are Coachable, Hungry and ready to take action towards becoming a greater, more powerful version of yourself. You are stuck, frozen or anchored to your current results and are looking to change your pattern by KILLING your EGO and destroying your limitations.
This program is not for you IF you have more reasons than results, you are not willing to intentionally suffer and dive deep into you’re conscious, or you are afraid of developing new skills and bridging the GAP between where you are and where you want to go!
After spending 18 years in the Health and Fitness industry, opening the first CrossFit gym in Arizona, immersing myself in intense coaching programs like SealFit KOKORO, Warrior Week, the Way of the Superior Man. Climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro, swimming Alcatraz, completing a 24-hour obstacle course race, 12 years of sobriety and countless other crucibles I designed a course, outline, program, and awakening like nothing else on the planet.
For the first time, the CRUCIBLE is available to any man willing to live by a CODE.
SHOW UP
DONT QUIT
DO THE WORK
LEAD WITH LOVE
TRUST THE PROCESS
Voluntary Suffering is Vital to Growth & Expansion
Luke Kayyem
Creator of the Fathers of the Future Movement, Podcast and Crucible
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Your support and contributions will enable us to meet our goals and improve conditions. Your generous donation will fund our mission and is deductible under IRC Section 170.